We live in a world where everything is going ‘supersize’; be it our meals, jobs or our cars. But do these protruding dimensions really define our lives? The ever enlarging dimensions are fine when it comes to our materialistic yearnings but what about them when it comes to our bed-side manners and our preferences.In a world where we are always portrayed that bigger is necessarily better, does that logic still apply when you are under covers with your man and yearn for something that cannot be confined to any dimensions? The most asked proverbial question of all times – Does size matter?

What it means for Him?

First of all, guys will be guys. No matter how many years go by comparing the size of things in the locker rooms; be it the open comparisons in school gyms or the hidden ones at the private gyms; men will always be conscious about the overall dimensions of the thing. It becomes a matter of pride (or at times shame) for them and also what to them is a matter of peak performance. For them, the essence of the size of things is comparable to that of a car’s engine; the bigger it is the more revving power it packs and hence, the greater its capacity of overall satisfaction – better speed, powerful noise and most importantly the thrill!

Really!

To put it in their terms, for a woman, a ‘supercharged’ car is fine, even enticing maybe, but if that car is driven by an unskilled driver, its big engine and mighty horsepower is hardly of any benefit to her. For her, it’s as good as a car at the dealership which she, given the looks, was enticed to drive, but was disappointed by the performance once she drove it. On the contrary, if she’s in an average car driven by a skilled driver, her experience is going to be much more satisfying than the former. Bottom-line – it’s not in the size of the car’s engine, it’s all about the driver’s skill set.

What it means for Her?

Yes, women do talk about their men’s ‘cars’. But don’t think that they talk about how big it is or what its horsepower is. They usually talk about the performance of the car and how they are pleased with it or what they did with it. In fact, it can turn out that men with ‘big cars’ may turn out to be lousy drivers as compared to those who are confident in not only the size of their cars, but their driving as well.

A woman’s ‘driveway’ isn’t really that big to begin with. The idea of a big car in the driveway is mouth watering only for a few women where majority of these will be aggressive ones. Also, women are not so competitive when it comes to comparing sizes. Do you really think a woman can tell if your car (if it’s not too small) is ¼th of an inch or for that matter ½ an inch shorter or longer?

To sum it up, for a woman, the size really does not matter as far as it is enough to satisfy her. The man who understands this, can be great at pleasing his woman. The one who still cannot get over it, needs to understand that it’s all in his head and it is going to affect his performance and he will first need to be at peace with his machine in order to please his woman.

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