It’s more than often that you spot a really hot guy, and, it also happens a lot of times that you cannot gather the courage to approach him let alone talk to him. And then, you are left with just those ‘what if’ dreams about that guy for many a days to come. If it happens a lot often, it’s time to drop those inhibitions and approach the hot guy that you feel attracted to.

Here are some ice-breakers that can help you.

• Start with admiring his sense of style. You can comment on his shirt or sweater or tie or jacket and tell him how good it looks on him. Maybe he has spent some time on getting the ensemble and you admiring it will make him want to listen more. A simple hook and sinker.
• Being a sport fanatic will help. The next time a good game is on, put on a jersey or tee with a logo of the team you support and go to a bar. Find the guy supporting the same team and sit beside him. Conversations will happen and you may connect to get your game on.
• Click a photo with him. No, not the stalking kind. When you spot the hot, ask him to click a photo of you and your friend(s). When he clicks a few, ask him to jump in and ask other friend to click. Then you can go over the picswith him and simply ask him his email to mail those. Connecting the digital way.
• Get him to escort you. Next time you see a hotty walking, tell him that you are lost and you want to go to – the-place-in-the-direction-he-is-going-in – and then coolly suggest that if he can escort you till there. When he drops you to a point, ask if you can return the favor with a cup of coffee.
• Mistake his identity. The classic old trick can really work at times. Tap the shoulder of that hot stranger and when he turns back pretend surprise by saying that he looks just like your friend blah blah and then start a conversation about how you know his look alike.
• Make him your target. When you are at the beach or the park with a ball and spot the guy you like, hit him with the ball and then pretend to be all apologetic. Then ask him to join the game.
• Give him your number unintentionally. Approach the guy you like and then ask him if you can borrow his phone to ring yours since you can’t find it. Not only will get you talking, it will quietly add you to his recent call list. If you don’t get a call in a few days, you can call up and ask whose number it is and you had a missed call from it on yours.

There are a lot many other ways to get around to the guy you fancy. Remember, the secret lies in being a bit confident and a lot in using the circumstances to your advantage.