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Falling in love with your best friend? How to deal with it?

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Are you falling for your best friend? Don't get your nickers in a knot entirely. When you start developing some feelings for your best friend you never know what to expect. It can be the start of something wonderful, or the end of a friendship if the feelings are not returned. While there is a possibility that you could end up happily married to your best friend, there is also a big fear that what if he does not feel the same way.

The first step in dealing with falling in love with your best friend is to observe if he has the same feelings for you. Be careful about coming out too suddenly or openly. Instead, be slow. Begin by telling him things like, “ We know each other for a long time,” or “ You know me better than anyone else” “What would I do without you?”These are basically harmless, elusive small hints of affection towards him. However, don't drop them too frequently, because then you will risk being too obvious.

You may also start making him feel special by taking care of his small needs. Be patient, but don't wait for too long. In short, give him some subtle hints and also give him a chance to understand you. Drop some mysterious hints. Little mystery is good for building up the attraction!! When you think the time is right, give it a shot. Obviously, you may risk spoiling and/or losing your friendship, but there is always a high chance of your best friend being considerate of your feelings or may have similar feelings for you.

It is believed that 'Love is friendship'. Best friends can make a happy couple as they know each other and their secrets for a long time. They understand each other well. Frankly speaking, there is an unsaid love between most of the best friends of opposite sex. The catch is in knowing how to deal with it. However you decide to tell him frankly or suppress your feelings, the choice is all yours.