In the world of widespread metrosexuality, it may be really hard to decipher if the guy you are dating or even married to is a metrosexual male or even an 'extreme' metrosexual male or is plainly- a gay. So, if you are walking the thin line that separates metrosexuality from homosexuality, how do you decide if the person you are so much in love with is just being a good looker or is in fact eyeing other males or is even cheating on you with them.
There is nothing wrong if a man uses hygiene products like exfoliation scrubs, shampoo or shaving cream, but a line is crossed if he get into eyeliner, concealer and foundation. I know that we are not living in the 70s where all man come in the 'package' of clean shaved, sleekly combed hair, and properly dressed. Today, it is quite acceptable for a man to be plucking his eye-brows. But how far should it go before a woman dating one of such “girly-men” understands that she is dating a “gay-man?”
Well, there are several ways that may help you to find if the man you are dating with is a metrosexual victim or not. He must be having a light voice and periodically, gets his teeth artificially cleaned and whitened. He may be more familiar with the tanning salon and is getting his body massages, manicure, and pedicure done on a regular basis. Speaking of apparels, nothing is more revelatory of a metrosexual than the numerous ridiculous trends coming out of the fashion world.
It's fine that men want to keep their nails in order and hence visit salon for a proper manicure. Truly, filthy nails are a turn-off. But, is it acceptable to see men with better polished nails and with those glittering nail polishes that usually are a girl’s domain?
In simple words, a man who primps and beautifies; i.e. getting highlights, waxing, plucking eyebrows, and getting his chest cleanly shaved is a metrosexual. If your man is cautious about his beauty regimens more than you are, then he is actually holding all the 'womanly' qualities. And, that's the time when you need to wake up and smell the coffee!