Ok, we aren’t the only ones who have those pre-sex jitters. The next time you are fussing about every little detail of yourself and how it will be affecting your sexual encounter , take a look at these secret sex fears guys harbor and you will understand that we, both the sexes, are mere mortals and WE BOTH have our own inhibitions. While we try everything from ‘dress to impress’ to getting bold in the act and are a rather bit verbal about those at times, the guys will hardly talk about it. Nonetheless, there are certain fears that always linger in their minds. Here are a few of them.
Getting Naked
While the guys like their action flicks and at times swear by the likes of Jason Statham or Brad Pitt, the movies, especially if watched before the act can do some serious damage to a guy’s confidence. With all those hunky stars sometimes parading around in bare essentials, it’s hard for a guy not to get a complex. Women drool over these stars and the guy’s ego can take a hit if you both happen to see some other Greek God of a physique prior to the act. This can make the guy feel shy getting naked because at the back of their head, they think as to they can compare to these people and hence may disappoint you.
Bringing up the Condoms
Given that birth control is necessary these days and every sane man and woman will go for those when they are getting together. However, should he forget to bring his, it can play a really bad second fiddle to his chances of getting laid. Guys may be very confident in getting into the act but no one wants to bring up the topic of condoms. They are afraid that if they ask YOU for those, you may react erratically and the whole romance may fall apart. This can especially be the case when you are not anticipating sex but he is and makes the moves and then gets to the asking for condom part.
The First Time
If you have played the field to a good degree, you will understand that men don’t attach too much meaning to sex; on the contrary, we do; and they know about it. Since they know about it, they comprehend that we may attach a lot of definitions or derive a lot of information (although irrelevant at times) from our first time together. Nobody is perfect, there are a lot of chances that things may go wrong the first, but probability is also high that the second time may be awesome. So when you are committing the act for the first time together, there are a lot of things going through his mind about how you will take it post the act.
Expectations and Deliverance
OK, maybe we all know this but it still remains the best sex secret guys harbor. It’s not the 50’ or 60’s where people hardly talked about sex, especially women. We are in the 21st century and women discuss everything from looks to things post act. This is at times heavy on the men’s mind as they want to be the best that you have had. They want to fulfill your great expectations but are a lot worried about delivering it.
